I always wondered why there was so much hype for Valentine’s Day… I have always felt you really don’t need a day to express your love for your loved one and you don’t need the day as a reason to shower the person with gifts. Still guess the whole world is all rosy and pink on February 14^th. Everybody was busy making plans and I had many inquiring me what plans I had for V day along with my fiancé. After a while it kinda got annoying when wherever you go, all people want to know is what you are doing on February 14^th.

Personally Balaji and I hadn’t made any grand plans. We decided it would just be another weekend where on Saturday temple was our priority, then we had a treat at BBQ and some wedding shopping to be done. All this we decided we would do if we got perm from our folks. On Friday we started early from office, did some window shopping for designer saris and suits for the ‘Man’ :)

I had been wanting to buy Balaji Mario Puzo’s latest (Six Graves to Munich). Since I had enough time before going for the treat I decided to give Connexions next to my place a visit to buy the book. I found it and also “Tuesdays with Morrie” by Mitch Albom. Decided it would be a good gift for Balaji. Imagine my surprise when there were people constantly walking in and out of the gift and card sections. Connexions has never been this busy at 11 in the morning!!! I went over that side and had a look. There were many new lovey dovey gifts for your loved ones. I was patiently looking at it all and ended up buying two showpieces :P and the cards were just tooo good to be ignored. I bought two of them too ;) So ultimately I ended up buying him stuff for V day. Got the gifts packed and smuggled them inside my house and safely locked them inside my locker.Later as planned we attended the treat at BBQ, had good food, fun talking with friends and got back to our window shopping.

Sunday morning I woke up after a good sleep. After waking up I realized that my parents were missing and that’s when i knew they had already left to Balaji’s house to give them the first wedding invite. When my folks came back my mom came to my room, handed me a big cover and said “Here, Balaji sent you this.” I was surprised and looked into the cover, there were two beautiful chudidhars :) I loved the colors but still I didn’t know why he sent me those. I immediately called him to ask about it and all he said was “Happy Valentine’s Day”. That was all I could ever ask for. My face lit up with a 1000watt smile. I couldn’t stop smiling at all. Imagine his guts to send me a gift through my mom. Crazy guy but isn’t that why I love him. He then left to Kanchipuram for some pooja. I wasn’t crestfallen or feeling bad as we hadn’t made any plans. I thought if I don’t meet him today will surprise him Monday morning at his place. So after a good lunch(cooked by ME!) I had a relaxing nap. I woke to his message announcing his arrival back to Chennai. I had to go buy my wedding reception sari in the evening and since my folks were busy with the invitation distribution it was a good reason for me to hang out. I went with him and bought the sari which we had earlier chosen. We later went for a drive, did some shopping where I finally bought a plain white shirt which I had wanted to buy for a long time now and had a good snack. When he stopped at the gates and I had to get down I opened my gifts and started handing him the gifts and cards 6 in all :) He was surprised and really overwhelmed. My deal for the day done!!!

At the end of the day when he was talking about how he wasn’t expecting stuff I felt really happy. I still feel all this hullabo for V day isn't required. We can always hang out with people whom we love, give them gifts as and when we want. Then why a day specifically for it ? But I should say that all the gift shops and bouquet shops have good sales on V day :)